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Kinktionary

More like guidelines and a lot less like definitions.

Undecided

Undecided usually refers to someone who is figuring out their place in the kink world - and they're not ready to commit to a specific identity like Dominant, submissive, Top, or bottom. While not a formal BDSM role, it's a recognized and commonly used status descriptor.

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