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Self-Spanker

A self-spanker is usually a person who enjoys spanking themselves. This can be for physical sensation, stress relief, emotional release, or sexual pleasure. Some people do it as part of masturbation or kink exploration, while others use it for grounding, routine, or to enter a different headspace.

Self spanking can be sexual or non-sexual. It doesn’t usually involve a partner and is done on the person’s own terms. However, some people do use self-spanking as a form of directed punishment, such as when their Dom is out of town or unavailable.

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