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More like guidelines and a lot less like definitions.


A Dominant who holds themself to a high ethical standard, exemplifying honesty, integrity, chivalry, self-discipline, and trustworthiness. A gentleman understands and highly values consent in all situations, and treats their partners with respect and consideration.

While not always the case, a kink dynamic involving a gentleman may also involve adherence to "good manners" in behaviour and interactions, and/or a specific code of dress.

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