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Tickler

In BDSM and tickling fetish communities, Tickler, or simply "Ler," usually refers to the dominant role in a tickling dynamic. This individual administers tickling to a consenting partner, known as the "lee" (from "ticklee"), who assumes the submissive role. (And does so willingly and enthusiastically when it is a true "Ler" meets "lee" relationship).

The Tickler role encompasses more than just the act of tickling; it often involves elements of power exchange, control, and psychological play. Tickling sessions may incorporate restraints, blindfolds, teasing, and other forms of sensory play to enhance the experience. Some individuals who identify as Ticklers may also enjoy switching roles, becoming "lees" in different scenarios, depending on personal preference and negotiation with partners.

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