Fluffer
In kink, a fluffer usually refers to someone who enjoys helping arouse and prepare others for sex or play, often as an act of service. They might use oral sex, their hands, kissing, touching, teasing, or other agreed forms of stimulation to help someone become hard, wet, relaxed, or ready for another partner or activity. It can even refer to bringing water, fanning someone, offering encouragement, or providing erotic commentary to help move a scene forward.
Fluffers can be eager volunteers or submissives assigned to prepare other participants.
Fluffers are especially associated with group sex, gangbangs, bukkake, hotwife scenes, and sex parties. They may prepare participants before their turn, help keep people aroused between partners, or warm up one person for someone else.
In some dynamics, fluffing is given as a submissive service task. It may also be combined with watching, filming, cuckolding, humiliation, or cleanup, although these are not required parts of the role.
A fluffer can be any gender, as can the person receiving the attention.
Origins of the Term
The term fluffer comes from the adult film industry. Traditionally, it meant someone employed on a porn set to help male performers become or remain erect before and between takes.
However, there is debate about how common this job ever was. Some adult performers say dedicated fluffers are largely a myth or are no longer used, while other accounts suggest they have sometimes been used during gangbang or bukkake shoots where several performers need to be ready at once.
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